I recently heard about a family that lost their little four year old boy from drowning. A prayer request went up last night to pray for him. He was found in the pool and was rushed into the hospital. This morning there was then the prayer request to pray for the family, that the boy was now in the arms of God.
We don't alway understand why God does things like this. We go through many different emotions, trying to figure out why He would do something to cause pain in our lives. I was praying for the family, asking God to send them as much peace and comfort as possible...and to know that even though we don't understand...everything happens for a reason.
But that is so much easier said on my end than it is their's. At the time we are going through the loss of someone, whether it be through death, or someone just walks out of your life...it is so hard to see that God is doing it for a reason. You don't know where to go or who to turn to...you may try to pray to the Lord for strength but can't feel anything or even get the words out.
I promise though...further down the road...when you find your strength in God again, when He brings you peace and joy again...you will look back at what has happened, and you will see the change in everything, and see that it was God all along doing something in your life. Maybe it was so you could help someone else who has lost a loved one.
Not loosing someone through death, but loosing a very dear friend in my life, which felt like a death, has changed me completely. And I can only pray that the Lord would be able to use me to help others who have lost someone too, if not through speaking words of encouragement...through prayer.
I will be praying for this precious family who has lost their child...and hope that it will help bring them even the smallest amount of peace or comfort.
Philippians 4:6-7 "6Be careful for nothing; but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God. 7And the peace of God which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Jesus Christ."